It looks to me like you're fighting the good fight all alone out here... It's not suprising, when there are so many distractions to pull people this way and that.
While I sympathize with what your doing, I would like to add something: the female desire to shift roles without considering the effects gives men a chance we've never had before in history: to choose what we can be... and I mean anything at all. I would like to see heterosexual men put women maybe 15th on their list of priorities in life, and stop letting them decide what we are. What say you?